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Me and my three wives all bonk in the same bed – our sex life is amazing' - Jerome Gunn

Writer's picture: Victor NwokoVictor Nwoko

Influencer Jerome Gunn, 34, shares his life with three partners: Jazz, 25, Dea'ja, 22, and Jasmine, 23, with whom he also shares children. Jerome and his first wife Jazz have been married for three years and opted to open their relationship shortly thereafter.


The trio met Dea'Ja on Facebook a year later and collectively decided to include Jasmine into their expanding family dynamic. Jerome shared with What'sTheJam: "The newest addition to our family is the one who ultimately decides on including another partner. However, the decision is always made through open and mutual discussion."



He continued, "One day, Dea'Ja and Jazz expressed interest in expanding our family. After nearly a year of dating and searching, we welcomed Jasmine."


Jerome acknowledged the complexities of maintaining multiple relationships, particularly in managing jealousy. "It's not always easy-going. We have our disagreements, like any other relationship or aspect of life.


However, we address our differences and conflicts through what we call an 'energy circle,' where we come together to openly discuss our feelings and resolve any issues."




He humorously added, "On a practical note, fitting all of us comfortably in a standard king-size bed became impossible. We ended up customizing our sleeping arrangements, sharing the same bed and room."

Regarding intimacy, Jerome remarked, "Our sex life is fulfilling and diverse. Sometimes it's one-on-one, other times two-on-one, or collectively as a group, depending on availability and desire."


Despite facing criticism from both family and strangers, Jerome remains resolute. "We often encounter disapproval from those who don't understand our lifestyle. But that only strengthens our commitment to it. Society's occasional judgment stems from unfamiliarity with seeing a man in a polyamorous relationship where everyone is content and harmonious."




Jerome emphasized the numerous advantages of their unique relationship. "It's enriching. Each partner brings distinct personalities, perspectives, and forms of support and affection. We have multiple sources of emotional and practical assistance, whether it's in the household or with childcare. It's akin to living with a close-knit group of friends whom you can rely on for anything."


Jerome and Jazz share a son, Jace, aged five, who resides with them, along with Dea'Ja's three-year-old son from a previous relationship. Jerome explained, "The children have never questioned our arrangement. Jace affectionately refers to all the women as his mothers, a term he adopted naturally, given the love and care they all provide."



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