13-Year-Old Grade 7 Learner Dies by Suicide After Alleged Bullying at a Primary School in South Africa

A 13-year-old Grade 7 learner, Mbali Mlaba, tragically died by suicide on Tuesday, April 8, 2025, after allegedly being bullied at Vulindlela Primary School in Harrismith, located in the Thabo Mofutsanyane District of the Free State. The incident has shocked the local community and reignited a national conversation about bullying in South African schools.

Mbali's mother discovered a heartbreaking note left behind by her daughter, in which she detailed the reasons that led to her devastating decision. According to reports, Mbali had been persistently bullied by a classmate who accused her of cheating during a test. The bullying reportedly escalated to physical assault and continued over multiple terms. The learner had previously expressed fear and even requested a transfer to another school in search of safety.

The Free State Department of Education, represented by spokesperson Howard Ndaba, confirmed the tragic loss and reaffirmed its zero-tolerance policy on bullying. The department emphasized its commitment to ensuring safe and supportive learning environments for all pupils.

Education MEC Dr Mamiki Maboya extended her condolences to the family and community, stating, “We are deeply saddened by the tragic loss of a Grade 7 learner from Vulindlela Primary School. We extend our heartfelt condolences to the family, friends, and loved ones of the deceased during this incredibly difficult time.”

Ndaba stated that the department recognizes the serious consequences of bullying on learners' mental health and overall wellbeing. He confirmed that psychosocial support services have been deployed to the school to assist affected learners, educators, and staff.

The incident has intensified calls from parents and education stakeholders for stronger intervention strategies to combat bullying. Community members have urged schools to take learners’ complaints seriously and prioritize early action. Many have also called for better training of teachers in handling bullying and for the creation of school cultures that encourage learners to speak out without fear.

In the wake of Mbali's passing, the Department of Education has committed to expanding its bullying prevention campaigns in the Thabo Mofutsanyane District and across the Free State province. These efforts will include learner education programmes, peer-support systems, improved complaint reporting channels, and increased mental health support in schools.

A full investigation into the incident is underway to ensure that appropriate accountability measures are taken. The department reiterated its message to learners and families: “If you or someone you know is struggling with bullying or any related issue, please reach out. We are committed to supporting every learner and creating school environments built on respect, empathy, and safety.”